課堂討論時,公司開會brainstorming時,同學(xué)聚會爭論某個問題時,都需要我們適時表達自己的意見。怎么樣表達才能讓別人聽到并注意到呢?今天,我們就來說一說表達意見的不同方式。
1. 表達自己意見
I think that... 我認(rèn)為... (最簡單的表達,也最直接)
It seems to me that... 在我看來... (可以用作表達意見,或者總結(jié)或者認(rèn)可對方說的話)
I would argue that...我是這么看的... (這里面用would來弱化語氣)
Just to go along with what you said... 順著你剛才說的,... (這句話,真的很好用,承上啟下。這句話還好在,它使你現(xiàn)在插話看上去很合理,因為你是為了順著前面的那個人繼續(xù)說)
Going back to what xxx said... 回到剛才XXX說的,... (同上。不過一般是你已經(jīng)說了幾句,此事,想要與別人剛剛提到過或者蜻蜓點水說的的東西扯上點關(guān)系。這句話的好處就是,一能讓別人看到我的說法和你是有一致之處的, 二能表現(xiàn)他剛才說的東西你還有印象)
2. 同意或者反對
I agree with you. 我同意你說的。(最簡單的)
Building on what XX has just said, ....就剛才XXX說的,...
I am with you..., but [main point]. 我明白你的意思,不過... (這里I am with you不一定表示同意也不一定表示反對,它主要的意思是說"你說的我聽懂了/我跟上你說的了)
I follow your logic, but have you thought about/considered this... [main point]...? 你說的我明白了,但是你有沒有想過...(和上面一句話的邏輯是一樣的)
I see what you are saying, but I'm not sure I would argue that... 我明白你的意思,不過我不確定我的觀點與你一致... (和上面兩句話的邏輯一樣)
With all due respect, I think... 恕我直言,我認(rèn)為...
3. 謙虛的反對
Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't [a different topic]...? 如果我說錯了,請你們指正,不過是不是...?
I'm not an expert on..., it seems to me that... 我在這方面是外行,在我看來...
I might be wrong, but ... 可能我理解錯了,不過...
I suspect that I lack some information about this aspect, but here is my two cents. 可能我對這方面的信息了解不夠充分,我的看法是...
I am not sure about this..., you might want to check with Professor X... Would you mind lettingme know what he/she says? 這個我不太確定,或許你可以找XX教授確認(rèn)一下。到時候麻煩你告訴我一下他是怎么說的,可以嗎?
This is one way to look at it. Another way to look at it might be.... 你這是一種看法,我另外還有一種看法是...(這句話通常在別人說了一堆之后,為了引出自己的觀點時使用)