通常我們都會遇到陌生人或冷場的情況，這個時候我們該怎么主動破冰(icebreaking)呢?

以下是幾句很好的開場白，跟大家分享一下!

1. 換個方式問"How are you?"：

"How are you doing right now?"

"How's your day been so far?"

同樣是問"你過得怎樣?"但是如此問的效果要好很多，因為沒人想去回答甚至思考一下像"How are you?"這樣一個過于陳腐的問題。

2. 人們總是樂意談論最近發(fā)生的新鮮事：

"What's happened for you today?"

"How was your trip?"

"How'd you sleep last night?"

3. 借助情境，簡單評論一下身邊事物：

"What do you think of that book?"

"Looks like a great drink. What is it?"

"I love this place because it's got great energy."

4. 以贊美來開頭：

"I like your posture. It makes you stand out nicely."

"Nice shirt. Where did you get it?"

"I love your style!"

5. 談談天氣：

"It's so hot today."

"The great sun is burning this afternoon."

"It's freezing! Do you know the temperature?"

這個方式經常被提到，但是美國漫畫家Kin Hubbard說，"Don't knock the weather. Nine-tenths of the people couldn't start a conversation if it didn't change once in a while."要用天氣這種通常情況下沒有太多變化的東西來發(fā)起談話并非一定容易，所以也不可過分倚重于此。