別因?yàn)橛龅搅朔磳?duì)意見(jiàn)就想要逃避,而應(yīng)運(yùn)用你所有的資源就地和反對(duì)者戰(zhàn)斗。
Never run away from disagreeable circumstances.Fight them,with all your resources,right where you stand and without a moment's delay.
但這并不是說(shuō)要對(duì)那些向你說(shuō)“不”的人揮動(dòng)拳頭,而是 說(shuō)不要接受那些反對(duì)意見(jiàn),而要盡一切努力改變反對(duì)者的心意,或者你應(yīng)該反躬自省,看看你有什么做得不對(duì)的地方并加 以改進(jìn),有的時(shí)候逆境反而是一種檢驗(yàn)的機(jī)會(huì),它可提供使自 己更進(jìn)步的方法。
This doesn't mean taking a swing at the fellow who tells you no.It does mean not accepting that refusal and bringing every faculty you have to bear on changing that person's mind. Or you may have to take a hard look at yourself,find the error you made, and resolve then and there to correct it. Sometimes adverse circumstances are testing devices,providing means by which you may be promoted from a given task to a greater on.
記住,你之所以成為一個(gè)獨(dú)立的人,并且處于一定的處境,乃因?yàn)槟愕男闹袌?jiān)持著某種觀念和想法。如果你遲遲不坑運(yùn)用這些觀念思想的話,那就等于給自己帶來(lái)更多的限制 和挫折。
Remember,you are what you are and where you are because of the dominating thoughts in your mind. Procrastination in dealing with these thoughts only sentences you to further limitation and frustration.
步驟10
為完成任何有價(jià)值的事情,都須付出一定的代價(jià),任何有價(jià)值的事情也值得去做。自力更生的代價(jià)就是當(dāng)一個(gè)人在運(yùn) 用信心時(shí),必須時(shí)時(shí)保持戒慎的態(tài)度。
Recognize that anything worth having has a definite price tag.Anything worth having is worth working for. The price of self-reliance is eternal vigilance in applying your faith.
關(guān)上通往恐懼的門(mén)之后,你會(huì)很快地看到通往信心的大 門(mén),增加和運(yùn)用信心是一段費(fèi)時(shí)而且需要奉獻(xiàn)的歷程,你在這 方面的努力是無(wú)止盡的,因?yàn)槟闼苓\(yùn)用的力量是無(wú)限的,因 努力而獲得的回報(bào)也是無(wú)盡的。
Close the door of fear behind you, and you will quickly see the door of faith open before you. Increasing and applying your faith are a process that takes time and dedication.You will never be finished with this task because the power you have at your disposal is infinite. So are rewards.